How To Win A Girls Heart

Girl’s love playing hard to get and the fact that boys chase after them thrills them to the marrow. Winning her heart is all about respect, confidence and common sense. When she smiles at you from across the room and you suddenly feel the butterflies swarm in your stomach, you hope she feels the same way. You, too, can learn the ways of women and the subtle art of winning a girl’s heart. Winning a girl’s heart depends more on the girl than on you. To get the girl, you have to know her, so unless you are willing to talk to her and spend some time that doesn’t involve sporting events, getting drunk or hanging with your friends, you will never win her. If truly you want that girl then you must take the following steps to ensure that you win her heart. Steps And Tips *Remember that appearances do count for something. Even though women are instinctively more interested in the person than the image, initial attraction comes from the eyes, so make the effort to look presentable. This doesn’t mean you have to go buy a suit or dress like a pastor. Just be clean and don’t wear your most corporate clothing. *Make eye contact with her eyes, not her chest. The biggest turn-off for a woman when speaking to a man is having him talk to her chest. The next biggest turn-off is a man with roving eyes–those that follow every other woman in the room even while you are talking to the woman you are “supposed” to be interested in. Give a woman whose heart you want to win your undivided attention. No one and nothing else should matter when you talk to her. * Be sober around her. You may drink heavily with the boys at the bar, but when you are with her, be sober so you can carry on a conversation that includes more than “I’m drunk” and “Do you want to come back to my place?” *Treat her like a lady. The surest way to a woman’s heart is to make her feel special and make her feel like you are interested in her for more than sex. An actual relationship that includes more than a one-night stand will impact your life in amazing ways. Getting to know someone on a personal level the way you can in a relationship is something you will not easily forget, and though you may get hurt, it is always worth it in the end. *Get a job. Although women are perfectly capable of paying their own way, they still want to know that they aren’t going to be carrying you and that you have some initiative beyond video games and the local pub. *Find interests other than sports. Plenty of women can talk shop about football, but honestly they could typically care less when it comes down to it, unless there happens to be a big game on. Even then, their conversation is limited to the time the game is on and does not continue four days later. They’d much rather discuss things such as music, movies or politics. Find common ground with a woman in topics other than sports, and you are on your way to winning her heart. *Be nice to children, elders and animals. It’s a respect issue, and it shows you have a heart. If you have a dog, that’s even better as long as you treat it well. *Keep a stockpile of good, clean(ish) jokes and stories you can interject in conversation, and be willing to talk in general. The hardest thing for a woman to take, even a quiet woman, is a man who can’t have a normal conversation. If you are uncomfortable talking, it’s typically a sure indication that in a relationship you won’t be able to handle emotional and/or delicate situations that require communication and will choose flight rather than fight. *Build up a strong music collection that includes multiple genres. If you love Fuji, great, but she might not, so it’s not a bad idea to diversify. There is plenty of great music out there in many different genres that you should at least taste, if not for her, then for your own edification. *Be open to new things, but don’t be afraid to draw the line if it’s too far out of your comfort zone. For example, she may be a movie freak who might wana go to the cinemas on the first date. If you’re not the movie type let her know –you can always find a happy medium. NOTE: Although it’s great to listen to her needs, keep your own needs in mind as well. Relationships are a two-way street and should always remain as close to balanced as possible. Do not be someone or something you are not. Lying is the surest way to angering her and turn her off of you forever. If you really want her, honesty is all you really need. If she doesn’t want you, then it wasn’t meant to be. Get over it and move on. Don’t look her up and down and whistle. No woman likes it when men whistle and cat-call–it’s obnoxious and makes women feel like pieces of meat. It’s a huge turn-off. I  hope the guys find this very useful. shallys blog